We’re not meant to blend in

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“Number 12 Looks Just Like You” is an episode from the original Twilight Zone, written by Rod Serling and based on the fable The Beautiful People by Charles Beaumont.

The episode depicts a dystopian future where beauty is everything. By age 19, every young person must go through a full surgical transformation. They get choose from a few “perfect” body types.

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Hot situation? Stay cool!

Please enjoy this excerpt from my upcoming book:
Keep Cool in Hot Situations: Start to Thrive When Conflict Arrives

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We’ve got a range of ways to respond when someone is being thoughtless, unfair, or rude to us.

Walking away is one of them.

On the outside, walking away may look passive, but walking away from a combustible situation, not out of politeness or fear of confrontation, but out of strength, actually shows some mega-power.

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See what’s possible in July, Week 3: Strong in the broken places

I tried writing this week’s post three times. Couldn’t do it. The kitten needed spaying. My teeth needed cleaning. My closet needed organizing. And a million other things that come up when I’m supposed to be writing, and I’m just not ready.

But then, I remembered a story scribbled in a notebook that I had tossed onto the top shelf of the closet. Funny, those million things just weren’t important anymore. I yanked the closet door open and rummaged around the top shelf, empty hangers raining down on my head til I found the notebook.

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See what’s possible in July, Week 2: The law of attraction

The 2007 runaway bestseller, The Secret by Rhonda Byrne drew both fierce devotees (who thought of it as a kind of magic) and fierce detractors (who called it pseudoscience). The book’s premise is that there is a great secret available to anyone — a type of energy that attracts everything that we want if we know how to harness it.

Like most breakout ideas, it has some validity, and the book makes important points. There actually is science to support the idea that we “live into” what we focus on. Essentially, when we believe something is possible, we start to see it showing up in our lives. Read More